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Essential Oils for Intimacy

I have been wanting to write this post FOREVER and I finally took the plunge! Essential Oils can help elevate every corner of your life, including the bedroom! Intimacy however, isn't just about sex. Essential Oils can help us get over our own issues of being too self conscious, and also to create a stronger desire for our partners. Today I am sharing a wealth of recipes with you, and a few different oils I think you will both love!

All Warmed Up

This blend is a sexy and fun way to incorporate your essential oils in the bedroom, and provide a warming and tingly sensation!

  • 1 drop CPTG Cinnamon Essential Oil

  • 1 drop CPTG Geranium Essential Oil

  • 1 drop CPTG Ginger Essential Oil

  • 1 drop CPTG Peppermint Essential Oil

  • 1 drop CPTG Lemongrass Essential Oil

  • Fractionated Coconut Oil

  • Empty 5mL glass oil bottle

Add all ingredients to empty bottle. Use as needed and be mindful of sensitive areas. Have fun! You will want to keep this one on your night stand!

Sexy Massage

Use this massage blend with your partner for an invigorating massage that is sure to put a smile on both of your faces!

  • 1 drop CPTG Wild Orange Essential Oil

  • 1 drop CPTG Clary Sage Essential Oil

  • 2 drops CPTG Ylang Ylang Essential Oil

  • 3 drops CPTG Sandalwood Essential Oil

  • Fractionated Coconut Oil

Mix oils together in your hand, or on your partner's back,  and dilute as desired with fractionated coconut oil. Enjoy the aroma and for extra sizzle, light some unscented candles for a romantic ambiance!

Let's Get it On: Diffuser Blend

Add the recommended drops of each essential oil listed to your cool mist water diffuser. Enjoy the beautiful aromas and set the mood with some romantic music!

  • 2 drops CPTG Ylang Ylang Essential Oil

  • 2 drops CPTG Lavender Essential Oil

  • 2 drops CPTG Cinnamon Bark Essential Oil

Sexy tip: Add these oils to a small glass spray bottle and fill up the rest of the way with water for a quick and sexy linen spray. Be sure to shake the bottle before spraying!

Neroli: Nature's Aphrodisiac

Neroli essential oil is derived from the blossoms of the bitter orange tree, and bitter orange essential oil comes from the rinds of the fruit through the process of expression. Because doTERRA Neroli Touch is diluted with Fractionated Coconut Oil, it is primarily meant to be used topically or aromatically. Neroli is a historically powerful Aphrodisiac, which makes is a wonderful oil to encourage feelings for intimacy.

  • Apply to your pulse points on your wrists, neck, or the side of your forehead to uplift your mood and enjoy the sweet citrusy scent.

  • Roll a small amount onto skin and then add Lavender, Ylang Ylang, and Marjoram oils for an aromatic massage experience.

Rose: Cultivate Intimacy

Known for its sweet floral fragrance, doTERRA Rose Touch also provides a myriad of benefits when applied topically. doTERRA Rose Touch combines Fractionated Coconut Oil with Rose essential oil, one of the world’s most precious essential oils, making applications and usage options both affordable and convenient. You will love incorporating Rose into your partnership, as it helps to cultivate feelings of intimacy, connectivity, radiance, and love.

  • Rose’s scent is not only sweet and floral, it also provides emotional benefits and is emotionally uplifting. Throughout the day when your mood needs a lift, apply doTERRA Rose Touch to your heart and pulse points. Self love is part of loving others.

  • Because of Rose’s sweet floral aroma, it is well-known in the perfume industry. For a beautiful and elegant personal fragrance, apply doTERRA Rose Touch to your neck and wrists.

Jasmine: Euphoric Feelings

Known for its warm and floral fragrance, Jasmine also provides a myriad of benefits both aromatically and topically. Because Jasmine has such an uplifting scent, using Jasmine Touch on our pulse points is the perfect way to uplift mood. Emotionally, Jasmine promotes feelings of joy, peace, and self-confidence. Jasmine also can help to create feelings of Euphoria, freedom, and feeling personally liberated.

  • Apply on your wrists and neck as a personal fragrance. Jasmine’s aroma is intensely floral, warm, musky, and exotic—the perfect scent for a fun perfume. (Not to mention its scent is also uplifting!)

  • Applying Jasmine in the morning will help provide a positive outlook on the day and leave you feeling uplifted and confident.

Passion: Inspire Creativity

Enriched with a combination of spice and herb essential oils, doTERRA Passion will help inspire creativity and ignite a passion for life when there seems to be little. This blend will fill your senses with renewed joy and feelings of wonder that will have you daring to try new things and will help you find greater delight in the blessings that surround you. So leave your boredom and disinterest behind with a little encouragement from the doTERRA Passion blend and soar to new levels of excitement, creativity, and inspiration.

  • This mixture of oils creates a chemical profile with a high concentration of phenols and ethers, which contribute warming and renewing benefits to the doTERRA Passion blend.

  • If you’re feeling your routine is becoming dull and monotonous, use Passion to make a change. To feel inspired and passionate, apply the Passion blend to your pulse points. With a specific and scientific formula of spice and herb essential oils, doTERRA Passion will help ignite feelings of excitement, passion, and joy.

Don't limit yourself to just these oils! This just scratches the surface, as the world of essential oils is vast, and all of our bodies work differently! Find what works for you and roll with it! (pun intended) I hope your next adventure with essential oils is passionate and vibrant!

52 Dates for Two!

When the weekend hits, we all get excited! Finally, a break from the chaos of the work week, plus date night... right? Alright, raise your hand if you love date night but hate planning date night?

I'm with you. It's hard to find the time to hunt down and plan date nights even when you do carve out time in your busy schedule to actually do the date night. I knew I needed an easy solution so I turned to my favorite choice for help with date night: The Dating Divas, of course. I found this fantastic pack of 52 Dates for Two so now I've got a date for every week of the next year. I seriously scored big time! unspecified-32

All I had to do was print and cut the set of cards and find a permanent home for them in our bedroom and I knew we wouldn't miss date night again—okay, okay there will probably still be just a couple of weeks that get crazy, but I just know this pack is going to make such a huge difference!

Just check out what the 52 Dates for Two pack includes:

  1. 52 Weekly Date Night Cards - A date night idea for each week of the year.
  2. Blank Date Night Cards - Customizable cards to include a few, more personal dates.
  3. 16 Bonus Date Cards - For more weekly date night ideas to choose from.
  4. Steps & Tips for a Photo Album - Create an easy way to track your date night memories.


Christmas is coming up so I'm adding the date night cards to a photo album and giving this as a year of dates to my husband {and to myself}! Once we actually go on the dates, we're really going to try to remember to take pictures so we can add them to the album. I feel like this gift is a win-win, we'll have date ideas for a year and then a photo album of all the memories at the end of it. Want to get your own? It's so simple to grab this pack right now for just $6.97!



I just hope the hubby doesn't hop onto my blog and find out what I'm up to! ;)

Reclaim your Marriage!
It's no secret that marriages are failing all over the world.
My husband and I have had our fair share of ups and downs, and let me tell you, marriage takes hard work! We may not be a "typical" couple either, but I sure know that we have worked super hard to get our marriage where it is today, and it's something that we will continue to work on. When you choose a partner for the rest of your life, the happily ever after doesn't just bippity-boppity-boo appear out of no-where, it has to be cultivated and created.
I feel like so, so many marriages fall between the cracks. They are struggling, but not quite so badly that they need the help of a professional therapist yet. If they continue their habits, divorce is likely. But how to turn it around? With what resources? The internet is helpful, but they need something more - something with exercises they can do together, questions they can ask each other, goals they can set, intimacy ideas they can try, and even date ideas to liven things up.ipad-1
...where is that, though?
My best girlfriends over at The Dating Divas saw a need, too. And they filled it.
I recently came across The Reclaim Your Marriage program from the Dating Divas. I have been nothing short of impressed! This program is broken up into 10 week sessions - 1 session per week. Each session hits on a hot-button topic in marriage, like trust, communication, finances, and intimacy.
This program is essentially private, at-home couples counseling that you can do all online. Each session includes a therapy video from Tara (founder of The Dating Divas), tons of exercises, activities, thought-provoking questions, and ways to solve those tricky "bumps in the road" that plague marriages today. They have come up with a simple, effective solution that couples can do together, in the privacy of their own home.
Here are some of the incredible topics you and your love will cover in the program:
The reviews have been pouring in, and they are impressive! This program has saved dozens of marriages already, and that's only from the beta testing.
If you are truly needing to put an investment into your relationship - try the Reclaim Your Marriage Program!
The first is week is free, so you've got nothing to lose! AND right now they sliced that price tag in half so you will be getting 50% off! Whoo hoo! Grateful to have such great friends providing all of us with great tools!