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Balancing Work and Family

This year has been a new way of life for me, as I am stepping into the role of more travel for my business, and with that new territory comes a new learning curve. How can I balance my work and my family, and also feel great about the decisions I'm making involving everything? Let's chat about it and I'll share with you what I have been doing.


You may have read that my husband and I decided to end our homeschooling journey (for now?) as Daen had expressed an interest in going to school. I made a promise to him and to myself that should this ever happen I would honor it, and find a school that would support him. Fortunately I found an incredible charter academy with the help of my friends from Daen's baseball team. I can't even begin to tell you what this has done for my relationship with my son and my business. I now have released the mommy guilt that came with me working while he is home with me, and have more focused time with both him and my business. I also now have more balanced time with my husband, and we have the opportunity to go out on day dates! However, with all the new scheduling that comes into place with school and my husband's physical therapy schedule, I knew I needed to change what I was doing and be more efficient with my time. 

So what did I do? In addition to using copious amounts of Balance I have been using Tony Robbins' Time of Your Life RPM Planner and Training and it has been absolutely life changing for me! I find myself having even more time than ever by scheduling things in a particular way. More often than not, we end up writing a daunting to-do list that is miles long with no real idea of what it is that we actually want. Then we get discouraged, stressed out and frazzled because we have no idea what we are doing... we only know that we ARE doing. What I love so much about this program is that it teaches you a new way of thinking, which of gets you different results! When you plan your day/week/month/year/life out with your ultimate outcomes in mind, the reasons why you want those outcomes, and actionable steps to reach those outcomes... you experience a whole new layer of life and the newfound balance you have been craving. 


Once you have successfully mastered your time you will understand the greatness you are truly capable of achieving. Most time and life planning products focus on activity and what you need to do. I can totally attest to this as I am an avid planner lover, but have always found that what I was doing would lead me to overwhelm at some point. The RPM system focuses first on the results and outcomes you want, then connects you to why it’s important to achieve your outcomes. When the inevitable challenges show up, RPM gives you the drive to follow through and achieve with the actions you need to take. I also loved the 10 day audio system, that you can listen to while you're out running errands, or doing things around the home, so you aren't taking out any extra time in your day. 

After finishing the program, and using the RPM Planner regularly, I find myself in a beautiful state of balance in my work life, family life, and especially in my self care. I can't imagine moving forward without this new way of thinking, managing my time, and scheduling the important things. If you find yourself "not having the time" or "not having enough time" to do and experience the things you want to in life, then I 100% recommend grabbing the Tony Robbins' Time of Your Life RPM Planner and Training and empowering yourself! 

I can't wait to hear what you think of it!

What will you take the leap on?

I wanted to stop in today to ask you a serious question. When was the last time you took the leap and did the scary thing? The thing that you really wanted to do but it shook you to your core...

The last few weeks have been ALL about doing the scary things for me... and taking even more action afterwards! Here are just a few of the things I have done recently that have really caused me to stretch, change, and grow.

  • Hired myself a NEW coach
  • Sent my baby to Charter school
  • FINALLY launched my coaching services
  • Opened up my VIP tribes to new members
  • ASKING for what I want

For years I have been wanting to launch my coaching services, and open up all of my trainings to oilers and biz babes outside of my direct community... and I FINALLY TOOK ACTION to do this! Was it terrifying? Yes! Did it feel amazing afterwards? Yes! And it still feels amazing!

Sometimes we put ourselves very last on our list, and forget to think about what we need to grow. We forget about what we need to help us stretch. We forget that we want to change. What is it that you need help focusing on? What do you WANT today? How can I help YOU? How can I SERVE you?

and most importantly...

What do you NEED?

I really truly want to know. Really! Reply back and share! I also hope today you do something that scares you! If you are ready to take massive action and you want me to coach you... let’s do it! If you don't have those oils you have been eyeing for years... let's do it! If you're not yet a member of my essential oil community... let's do it!

  • Go here to get started with your oils
  • decide what kind of membership you’d like to have
  • keep wholesale customer highlighted and click continue OR Select Wellness Advocate if you would like to create an income
  • fill out your information
  • double check that my name (Dalea Faulkner), photo, and ID number is there 403946
  • select your oil collection
  • agree to terms
  • enter your payment info and submit!
  • Once you have completed this, request access to the VIP Facebook community where we exchange recipes and post questions!

If you are already a current wholesale customer of someone else (not in our current community) please become a subscribing and adopted member by going here and this will also grant you access to the business facebook group. Shoot me an email once you have done this so I can get you connected with both facebook groups!

I am also accepting 5 coaching clients right now! If this sounds like you, you can opt into that right here!

As always, if you have any questions along the way let me know. I am here for YOU!

Take care, and keep oiling!

A message from your Coach

“We do not attract what we want; we attract what we are.“ -Dr. Wayne Dyer Who are you right now? Who do you want to be? What would life look like if you were living it at your full potential, and living in the most extraordinary way? What beautiful things would your create? Which people would you serve?

How can you bring more empowered moments into the life you’re living right now? Over 6 years ago, I was struggling so deeply with depression, anxiety, and plagued with negativity. I hated myself so much, and felt like I had tried everything to get myself to a better headspace. Not an easy feat as a new mother. For half my pregnancy and half of the first year of Daen’s life, I had to navigate these emotions and struggles with my husband in Afghanistan. I knew that I needed to make a change because what I was doing wasn’t working.

Essential oils have played a massive part in my overall health and wellness, mental, spiritual, and emotional transformation, and have lead me to so many beautiful tools in personal development. The woman I am today was molded. I worked so hard to become this version of myself because I knew there was so much more to life than what I was allowing myself to experience.

I want this for you, and I want to celebrate your wins, no matter how big or small you think they are. I want to celebrate your transformations, even when you’re in the thick of it and can’t see how far you’ve come. I want to be there for you every step of the way, so that you don’t ever have to feel alone on your journey.


Your Coach, Dalea

Biz ResOILutions

Holy moly! Another new year is here, and that means it's another chance to rock your Oil Biz goals, and help change the world! (Can you tell I'm excited?!) Let's dig deep and check out 5 ways we can improve our biz in 2018 and crush those goals!

Use your Oils!

  • I feel like we have talked about this before... but it's pretty obvious (and simple!) to use the oils to keep your self care in check and your body in tip top shape, so that you can spend the time you need to focus on your business.

Get in the trenches!

  • One of the best ways to understand the things your leaders and teams are struggling with, is getting out there and experiencing it for yourself! Observe them teaching a workshop or one on one. Get in there and work on finding solutions together!

Set your Intentions!

  • Is this the year that you want to feel Empowered? Inspired? Guided? Balanced? Find out what emotion you most want to feel throughout the year, and let this be your North Star in relation to your goals. Having the ability to tap into your intentions by feeling that emotion whenever you choose, is going to help keep you on track with your goals.

Set your Goals!

  • Are you planning to hit Diamond this year? What will that take? How much volume will you need? How many people is that? How many classes or one on ones will you do? What about your team? Lay out a plan for yourself so that you can see which steps are going to make your goal a reality. While you are working those steps... feel those emotions from your Intentions!

Keep it Going!

  • It is so easy to get discouraged and lose momentum after the first few months of the year. Find an inspirational speaker, or mentor that lights a fire in you that will help to keep your momentum going. PodCasts, YouTube, and even Facebook Live videos are a wonderful way to stay inspired and keep that energy high vibe!

Most of all, have fun with your business. You are making waves in this world for positive change on a daily basis. Have fun being a miracle worker and let me know what you are most excited to do this year!

New Year, New You!

Time to get excited! doTERRA is bringing back your favorite promotion to give you the confidence and motivation needed to share the benefits of our products with friends and family! All the details can be found below! Are you ready to share how amazing these oils are?!

How to Schedule a New Year, New You Event:

  1. Go to:
  2. Click on “Register to Add Events”
  3. Create an account to edit events and view event promo codes
  4. Log in to begin scheduling New Year, New You events
  5. The promo code for new enrollees can be found on the list view of your events
  6. Event must be between January 1, 2018 and February 28, 2018 to qualify.

All events are automatically approved unless we email you stating otherwise. You will see a confirmation screen appear after you submit your event.

What to do if you cannot log in after registering:

  1. Go to the log in page and click "Send Me My Login Information"
  2. Watch for an email containing a new username and password
  3. Copy and paste both the username and password information exactly
  4. If you continue to have problems, please email

How do my attendees/new enrollees redeem their 100 product points?

  1. Attend a New Year, New You event between January 1, 2018 and February 28, 2018.
  2. Enroll as a Wholesale Customer or Wellness Advocate with a 100PV+ order within 3 days of the event.
  3. The promo code will be applied during enrollment when enrolling in the US (individuals in Canada will submit their ID number, password, and promo code immediately after enrolling at
  4. Enrollment orders must be followed by a 100PV+ Loyalty Rewards (LRP) order to qualify for the 100 points.
  5. 100 free product points will be added to a new enrollee’s account within three to five business days of their LRP processing

The last day to enroll is March 3, 2018. Enrollments after this date will not qualify for the New Year, New You Promotion.

These details pertain only to the U.S. and Canada.

Frequently Asked Questions

  • Do online/webinar events qualify as an event? Yes, online events and webinars can qualify as a New Year, New You event.
  • I am having trouble logging in to the calendar to register events, what should I do? Go to the log in page and click "Send Me My Login Information". Watch for an email containing a new username and password. Copy and paste both the username and password information exactly. If you continue to have problems, please email
  • Do I need to fill out all of the information when submitting an event? No you do not. You can just fill out the information that applies to your event.
  • Do I have to be the enroller of those who attend my event? The event holder does not have to be the enroller of those who attend the event.
  •  Multiple Wellness Advocates will be running the event, will each individual need to register for the event? No, only one individual will need to register the event and manage the event code.
  • Where do I find my redemption code to give my attendees? The code can be found in the list view of your events, after you log in to the calendar.
  • What are “product points?” Product points can be used to purchase some of our dōTERRA products. There are, however, some products that can’t be purchased with points. These mainly consist of diffusers and business tools.
  • How do my new enrollees receive their 100 free product points? The promo code will be applied during enrollment when enrolling in the US (individuals in Canada will submit their ID number, password, and promo code after enrolling at
  • Are Wholesale Customers allowed to participate in this promotion? Yes.
  •  If the new enrollee accidentally missed their 100 PV mark for their enrollment order or first LRP order, can they make up the difference? Please call member services at (800)-411-8151, or send an email to: Please be aware that we cannot guarantee an exception can be made.
  • Is there a limit on how many events I can register? No, you can register as many events as you would like.
  • What are business days? Business days are Monday – Friday. Please be aware that Holidays do not count as a business days.

If you have additional questions regarding how this promotion works, please call into member services at (800)-411-8151 or email with the subject ‘New Year, New You Question.”

Re-Energize your Biz

2017 is coming to a close, and you may find yourself feeling like it's time to re-energize your biz. I 100% agree, that it is the perfect time to pour new life into your essential oils business, and make choices on how you want the upcoming year to play out. Ask yourself some questions, to give a bit more clarity on where you want to be going, and this will give you everything you need to focus and re-energize those areas of your business.

Some of these questions are from my post on the 15th, 101 Questions to ask Yourself before starting 2018. If you haven't read this, I highly recommend it, as it can only help you shine light on areas of your life that you want to sparkle!

  • How did I follow my Business Plan in 2017?
  • Am I doing this business as a hobby, or as a business?
  • Did I keep records?
  • What did I learn from my records?
  • Is this number going to bring me where I want to go?
  • How can I improve this number?
  • What business skill(s) do I want to learn in 2018?
  • How do I want to show up for my team?
  • What books did I read in 2017 that made a positive impact in my life?
  • What self-help seminars did I attend?
  • What meditations/affirmations did I listen to that empowered me?
  • Am I reading the right books to bring me to the goal I want to achieve?
  • Am I waiting for somebody to inspire me or do I inspire myself?
  • Which people did I learn the most from?
  • What do I want to learn in 2018?
  • How often will I teach classes?
  • What kind of training do I want to provide for my leaders?
  • Which area of my business excites me the most?
  • The least?
  • What tools will I utilize to build my business?

You can even continue this list and dig deeper. What this will do is provide you a roadmap of where you want to focus in your business, and identify the areas you are excited to get working on straight away! Now is the time to establish goals for your upcoming year, including monthly, and quarterly. I know that 2018 will be successful for you, if you implement the things you have learned, and you are consistent in your efforts!

Keep on Shining!

101 Questions to ask Yourself before starting 2018!

Successful People Reflect On Their Progress Before They Start The New Year... Some of you have asked me, "How Do I Reflect?". I took some time and I listed some questions I like to ask myself to reflect on every year, before the new year begins. I hope this is helpful and that you kick off 2018 with a bang! I recommend taking 1 hour to yourself, in peace and quiet, to go over the following list before you start taking action in 2018. This can make all the difference to create a successful year! Grab your oils, turn on the diffuser, and let's dig in. We will be reflecting on the 9 most important parts of your life, to help you really dig deep!

Start reflecting on the year...

  • What did I learn in 2017?
  • What did I achieve in 2017?
  • How does this make me feel?
  • What did I learn from failure and success?
  • What am I proud of?
  • Where am I balanced and unbalanced in my life?
  • What do I want to improve in 2018?
  • What do I want to achieve in 2018?
  • What were my 5 biggest strengths in 2017?
  • What are my 3 weaknesses that I can improve to perform better?
  • Am I happy about my results?
  • What am I unhappy about and why?
  • How can I make it better?

My Health

  • Did my health improve in 2017?
  • Did I gain or lose weight?
  • Did I improve my Stamina?
  • How were my eating habits: healthy or unhealthy?
  • How many times a week did I exercise?
  • Did I follow my health plan?
  • Is my body getting all the right nutrition?
  • Did I feel energetic, (younger or older) in 2017?
  • How did I deal with stress?
  • Did I use my essential oils consistently?
  • What is my health goal for 2018?

My Surroundings

  • Who are the 5-10 people I spent the most time with in 2017?
  • Are they bringing me up or down?
  • Are they mostly negative or positive?
  • Are they BIG thinkers or small thinkers?
  • Do we have unconditional or conditional love?
  • How much are they earning a month?
  • Are they working on themselves every day to create a better life?
  • Did I make positive new friends in 2017 that encourage me to follow my dreams?
  • Help me to think bigger?
  • Give me a vision of better life?
  • How can I improve my surroundings in 2018?

Self Education

  • What books did I read in 2017 that made a positive impact in my life?
  • What self-help seminars did I attend?
  • What meditations/affirmations did I listen to that empowered me?
  • Am I reading the right books to bring me to the goal I want to achieve?
  • Am I waiting for somebody to inspire me or do I inspire myself?
  • Which people did I learn the most from?
  • What do I want to learn in 2018?

Money Management

  • How did I manage any money in 2017?
  • Did I have a plan?
  • Did I save?
  • Did I invest back in my business?
  • Did i give to charity?
  • What is my plan for 2018?
  • What is my plan to protect my wealth from inflation?
  • Is my money working for me?

Business Skills

  • How did I follow my Business Plan in 2017?
  • Am I doing this business as a hobby, or as a business?
  • Did I keep records?
  • What did I learn from my records?
  • Is this number going to bring me where I want to go?
  • How can I improve this number?
  • What business skill(s) do I want to learn in 2018?

Love and Relationships

  • How loved did I feel in 2017?
  • How did I show love to my friends, family, and my partner?
  • Did I spend quality time with my friends and family in 2017?
  • Did I love myself in 2017?
  • How did I practice self love?
  • Did I easily forget myself in 2017?
  • What do I still carry with me that I want to let go before I start 2018?
  • Did I forgive others?
  • How did I practice forgiveness? (Take time to forgive and let go now)
  • Did I love unconditionally or conditionally?
  • What do I want to improve in my relationships and love life for 2018?
  • What goals do I have regarding family, love, and friendship in 2018?
  • How can I make my relationships more fulfilling?

My Emotions

  • Did I spend most of my time thinking negatively, blaming, and complaining about what I don't have?
  • Did I spend my time living in fear?
  • Was I concerned too much about what other people think?
  • Did I spend most of my time being grateful, focusing on the good in my life, and the future I can build?
  • Did I spend time helping others?
  • What emotions do I want to feel the most in 2018?

My Habits

  • What daily habits help me to create a better life and growing business?
  • What negative habits hold me back?
  • What new empowering habits can I create for 2018?

My Spirituality

  • Did I take time to sit quietly and Meditate or Pray?
  • How can I do this more in 2018?
  • Was I at peace with myself?
  • Was my mind too busy?
  • How can I be more at peace with myself in the world in 2018?
  • Did I take time to connect with God/The Universe?
  • How can I connect more with God/The Universe?
  • Do I feel lonely most of the time or can I be happy with myself?
  • How can I be more happy with myself in 2018?
  • Do I have faith, or do I worry too much?
  • Do I act out of love or out of fear?
  • Did I follow my heart?
  • Did I follow my intuition?
  • Am I doing my passion, and following my heart's desire?
  • Was I spending time quiet in Nature?
  • Was I grateful everyday for the simple things in Life?
  • Am I happy in the now?
  • Was I flowing in the present or always in the future with my mind?
  • How can I be more present in 2018?
  • What daily habits can I create in 2018 to be more present, more in the flow with nature, more at peace with myself, and more connected to God?
  • What new empowering habits can I create for 2018?


  • What am I committed to change and improve on. Why am I committed to this?
  • Do I need a mentor or a coach?

My Why

  • What is my "BIG WHY" to improve my life?

If you are serious about creating an incredible, abundant, and amazing 2018... I totally recommend getting yourself a Success Planner so you can make your New Year Resolutions and reality! If you found value in this, I would love for you to share it with your friends and comment below!


Check out this 12 Month Success and Life Planner!

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A 12 Month Law Of Attraction Planner that comes in Black, Blue or Pink and comes in A5 And B5 Sizes. These are in stock and ready to use!

What makes this planner different from The 30 Day Law Of Attraction Planner?

  • The 12 Month Weekly Planner has a few new features!
  • Out Foldable Vision Board and goals, so you can stay  focused on your year goals when you fill in your week plan
  • My Most Important Life Goals Section - Helps you to create harmonic goals
  • Plan Your Journey - Helps you plan your success on all levels
  • How Will I Make It Happen Section
  • Monthly Reflection Page
  • Monthly Overview, Goals and Priorities
  • 24 Dot Gridded Pages to get Creative
  • 24 Blank Pages to draw or write down ideas
  • Monthly 2 Dot Gridded ideas and notes pages
  • Super Smooth High Quality 100 Gr Thick Paper (About 245 Pages)
  • Weekly Planning Overview (56 Weeks, 112 Pages)
  • Calendar for the upcoming years (Out Foldable)

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If you found value in this, I would love for you to share it with your friends and comment below! I would also love for you to share your dreams for 2018 with me! I can't wait to hear how you are going to help empower the world and your life!

Building during the Holidays

The Holiday Season is here, but that is no reason to let your essential oil business, and community fall to the wayside! Building your business during the Holidays can be fun, and far from being a chore. Let's talk about some fun ways for you to build your business during the holiday season!

Take advantage of the excitement of the holiday season and show your friends and family how doTERRA essential oils can add spice and joy to their life by hosting a Christmas-themed class! There are so many ways to do this and I will share a handful of them with you!

1. Show them Holiday blends to diffuse. 

  • 2 drops Wild Orange, 2 drops Cassia, 2 drops Siberian Fir
  • 3 drops Frankincense, 3 drops Myrrh, 3 drops Cardamom, 2 drops Siberian Fir
  • 4 drops Wintergreen and 2 drops Douglas Fir

Experiment and discover some favorites of your own! Diffusing is one of the simplest ways to let others experience the power of doTERRA. Whether you are putting together an event for your biz builders, you are teaching a class, or doing a make and take, putting together a diffuser blend is an awesome way to share!  2. Serve your guests spiced apple cider and add these essential oils to the cider of your choice:

  • 3 drops Wild Orange
  • 2 drops Cinnamon Bark or Cassia
  • 2 drops Ginger

3. Cook and bake with your essential oils together

4. Create a fun holiday craft like the one below: Stencil Holiday Jar:

  • Paint around a stencil of your favorite holiday image (e.g. a reindeer, Santa’s sleigh, a star, etc.) on a mason jar or any other type of glass jar.
  • For a more rustic look, scuff up the paint with sand paper.
  • Fill the jar with dried red berries and a tea light or any other holiday-like items.
  • Dress up the jar as you desire with ribbons, bells, etc.
  • Finally, add one or two drops of Holiday Joy or your favorite doTERRA holiday scent.

This is perfect for a Holiday make and take event! Get your friends together for a fun and laid back holiday gathering! Who doesn't enjoy crafting during the holidays? You can also share the event as a "last minute gift" idea, for those that still need some!

6. Host a Holiday and Essential Oils crafting event

  • Put together Felt garland diffusers! This is super inexpensive and can also be a fun, child friendly event!

7. Help friends and family create their doTERRA wishlists!

  • If your family does a gift exchange, this is the perfect opportunity to find out who has been dreaming of a wholesale account!
  • Letting your family know that Secret Santas can come to you to find out which oils are on people's wishlists is a fun way to get everyone oiling!

Realize that many people are busy during the holidays, but there are also MANY people that are looking for fun things to do as well! Look at this season as an opportunity to connect with and serve others in your community.

I am wishing you massive success this holiday season!